Complaining

I noticed this weekend that usually when I complain (and I try not to do it often but that is a constant struggle) it is more about ourselves than those we are complaining about in the first place.  Maybe they aren't doing it the way WE wanted or the way WE would have done it.  What is wrong with their way?  Oh yeah, it isn't our way.  Take a week and sit back and see how much complaining you do, and if it really a problem or just a grip that it isn't done your way...